Work Better With Nonprofit Consultants – How to Find Them, Pay Them, and Make It Pay Off


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Key Takeaways:

  • Budget purposefully and honestly. Consultants want to find a way to work with you—but that typically requires some mutual knowledge-building and open conversations.
  • Identify the specific opportunity. “We need help” isn’t as actionable for anyone as “we need to achieve this along that timeline” is.
  • Find the right practitioner. Nonprofit consultants of every specialty and service area abound, but how you find the best fit depends a lot on the ways you look for them. 
  • Manage a thoughtful engagement. Consultants aren’t staff, but they are part of your team—and that means thoughtfully managing a productive relationship.
  • Ask, learn, repeat. One great engagement can beget another—especially when both the consultant and client are interested in learning and improving.

Whatever your nonprofit’s needs are, a good consultant can be a boon—bringing new perspective, external expertise, specialized knowledge, or additional capacity—but the process may seem intimidating, and it’s easy to feel burned by a bad experience. Fortunately, from payment questions to project management, the knowledge for how to build a successful engagement is out there—but, for would-be clients and aspiring consultants alike, it’s also usually gained piecemeal at best. 

That’s certainly how I learned when I launched Allative Communications in 2017—yet one more set of skills that we solo practitioners have to pick up on the fly, and that we often have to teach our clients while trying to get hired. 

Working with Consultants: A Guide for Mission-Driven Organizations changes that status quo. It’s the resource that a dozen of us wished we had starting out or wished that we could hand to nonprofits even before scheduling an initial call. Meant for practitioners throughout the nonprofit, social change, and community-impact sectors, the guide is free, practical, and sans paywall or promotions. It also contains so much good stuff that I personally learned a ton just being part of its creation—read on for more.

Before You Hire a Nonprofit Consultant, Walk Through These 5 Conversations

Preparing for budget conversations benefits everyone.

By far the most-visited pages of the guide have been about money—especially budgeting and pricing models (written by yours truly) and market-rate benchmarks specific to nonprofit consulting (based on a recently updated 2025 survey). 

That’s probably because, based on the team’s collective decades of experiences, these are usually the stickiest wickets on both sides of the conversation. I’ve spent nearly a decade trying to gauge in real time whether my rates are appropriate, realistic, and—above all—reflective of the value I bring. And even so, I lost count years ago of the projects that have fallen through because someone (whether me or the potential client) balked at the price tag.

Consultants are specialized professionals who work hard for our fees, but much of the nonprofit sector is defined by budget constraints. It’s worth understanding the real value of the work and those doing it, and to spend time considering what it might cost to execute the right scope—both upfront and in staff time, implementation, and the alternative timeline where it doesn’t get done. A win-win takes thoughtful planning and mutual respect.

Articulate the opportunity—and what’s needed to address it.

Most nonprofits could use an extra pair of hands on any number of projects, and when a body of work calls for a fresh, outside perspective or a skill set that simply doesn’t exist in-house, hiring a consultant may be a great way to add vital capacity. But it’s critical for organizations to understand what they’re asking for and then committing to. 

My favorite clients are always the ones who arrive with a clear description of what they need, or who make time early to hammer it out in detail. We consultants do our best work when everyone knows why we’re there; vague scopes of, goals for, or management of an engagement will produce vague—if any—results.

Wide or not, cast the right net.

Word of mouth remains the most effective way to find someone who meets your organization’s needs, because relationship-driven sourcing ensures every business referral come with a built-in recommendation. All my longest-running client relationships have stemmed from personal networks and direct connections (virtual or in-person); even casual, informational conversations can help articulate opportunities for collaboration beyond what an organization may be able to determine internally.

Meanwhile, many would-be clients also use requests for proposals (RFPs) to define their needs and seek consultants with a more open-ended process. That can be appropriate in many cases—but many small and solo consultancies eschew them entirely. RFPs often just aren’t worth our time, as they can require lengthy applications without any promise of payoff or even follow-up. 

What’s more, RFPs tend to select for certain types of firms, and the processes often end up favoring known respondents anyway, which can waste everyone’s time. The guide gets into when they’re worth doing, but it’s also a good reminder to cultivate a substantive personal network (and not just on LinkedIn).  

Consultants aren’t employees—but we’re more than vendors.

While a consultant is not formally part of your organization, they need to be appropriately integrated to serve it. In many ways, that just means good project and personnel management; where that differs is with the need to more explicitly define what’s needed to engineer a successful arrangement—and to follow through. 

This is where a lot of would-be great projects lose steam, whether due to poor communication or a lack of timely follow-up. We need to agree on what success looks like, and everyone should commit to attaining it. An experienced consultant can and should help engineer a successful arrangement—and discuss ways to fix what isn’t working—but the client ultimately owns bears responsibility for executing it.

Ask questions and take notes. 

For clients and consultants, every engagement can be a learning opportunity—it’s why I look back on almost all my past projects fondly. When both parties approach the work with dedication to transparency, open-mindedness, and collaboration, the results can be timely, fruitful, and fulfilling. If we can assess what worked well, the client and I can each recreate those elements on future projects.

When expectations are misaligned, scope creeps, or an organization simply isn’t ready for what they want, even the best of intentions from the most skilled practitioners can’t work miracles. But if something went poorly, it’s still worth figuring out why—especially if everyone can approach the conversation in good faith and with the intention of improving. 

Few practitioners know better than nonprofit consultants how complex it can be to effectively deliver services that augment, supplement, and elevate mission-driven efforts. With a thoughtful approach and respectful intent, prospective clients can engage the right collaborators for a project that calls for someone specialized, short-term, or simply outside your usual capacity.

So next time you find yourself wishing your team had this skillset, that experience, or more time to think bigger-picture, consider a consultant. We love what you do, and we’re here to help make it happen even better.


Allison Ehrich Bernstein (she/her) is a strategist, speechwriter, and editor who works with nonprofits and mission-driven organizations to integrate strategic communications and great writing to advance nonprofit causes. A longtime political speechwriter and progressive campaign worker, she also maintains Progressive Job Resources. Find out more at allativecommunications.com.

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